i find that most people,
do not care for friendship
or the intensity of a complete connection.

most want to know as many people as possible,
to be seen in as many places;
with as many new acquaintances-
all friendly face but little heart.

but i want to know a few people intimately,
one or two-
to know them completely, vitally,
all open heart surgery and warm embraces.

And this is why i do not have many friends
and yet more smiling faces than i can put names to.
this is why i am always seeking sincerity-
i am always waitful, watchful,
careful who i share myself with.

— waitful, f.gabdon (via thegabdonwrites)

quality beats quantity any day. hands down.

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Let’s raise children who wont have to recover from their childhoods



The above is the response I’m going to start giving people when they say “well, that’s how my parents raised me and I turned out just fine”. We walk around refusing to be accountable for our actions & words, have deep-seated anger issues, separation anxiety, severe paranoia, don’t know how to trust people even when we have no reason to distrust them, can’t tell the difference between healthy love and [any form of] abuse BUT we turned out just fine. No we didn’t and nothing is wrong with admitting some shit in life isn’t/wasn’t okay. 

And parents, saying “I did the best I could”…most parents do, that doesn’t mean you didn’t fuck your kids up along the way. Have some accountability. As a parent, I know what’s involved in raising a child that won’t have to recover from their childhood. It’s called hard ass work, EVERYDAY…and making sure we lay our childhood demons to rest so we don’t [unknowingly] let it affect our child[ren] negatively.

Rant over.

(via nsoromma)


Anonymous asked:

This is gonna sound so stupid but what is a fuckboy? lol



fuckboy symptoms:

  • timothy over here askin’ for nudes when all u did was say hello
  • connor who won’t calm down with his axe spray tryna infect ya lungs
  • colin adding #420 to his bio when he smoked weed one time
  • gregory mad cause u didn’t blow him after the first date

how to spot a fuckboy:

  • white nike tube socks with his adidas sandals
  • he wants to play 20 questions (!!!!!!!!! do not play !!!!!!!!!!! especially if there’s a “;)” involved)
  • relies on his mom but doesn’t respect women
  • looks like he just read one of jaden smith’s tweets in all of his selfies
  • can’t find the clitoris

fuckboys come in all shapes and sizes and results may vary but when he a fuckboy…he a fuckboy…and u will know

LOL at “looks like he just read one of jaden smith’s tweets in all of his selfies” and “relies on his mom but doesn’t respect women”. still laughing.

Mutually beneficial relationships that continue to grow will always be more favorable [to me] than one-sided stagnant unions. Anything that doesn’t continue to grow eventually starts dying. It’s an odd thing that some of us understand this about everything else we consider to be alive but forget to apply it to our relationships.




…I may or may not have teared up a bit reading this ;)

I needed this kind of inspiration today. :)


(via shizukasmack)

“…the older I get, the more I see how women are described as having gone mad, when what they’ve actually become is knowledgeable and powerful and fucking furious.”




"So many of us choose our path out of fear disguised as practicality"

Actual idol

when carrey is serious, it’s often devastating. i really wish he did more sincere stuff. 

holy fucking shit tho.

(via thefemme-menace)

“There’s nothing like being told you’re ‘doing feminism wrong’ to stop young people from ever trying to do it right.”
— Lucy Ormonde